Choosing shoes is really important for life

【本本】Foot first

Selecting shoes does have a major impact on life:

The most obvious is that the effect of clothing is very different. Particularly attractive, colorful clothes, shoes, and accessories tell the world that we are brisk, lively, rejuvenated, independent, courageous in undertaking all kinds of daunting tasks, full of self-confidence, and we are not shrinking in self-improvement. Conversely, clothes, shoes, and accessories with serious negative effects are communicated to the world. We tend to shrink and be unreliable; we rely on the judgment of others rather than on our own feelings; we do not know how to use clothing to express our personality; In life, we prefer to follow the beaten path for the sake of stability.

However, the vast majority of our women are somewhere in between:

Our clothes reflect the traces of our own personality, which is a mixture of temperaments. If the biggest feature of your personality is conservative, your cloakroom may be full of classic black, low-heeled casual shoes, plain lace-up sandals, valuable leather soft shoes, unadorned sandals, and white, Black sneakers.

There may be pair of sexy high heel buckle sandals, but that was bought for your wedding anniversary;

Maybe you will have tennis shoes that are studded with synthetic gems. You bought them for a celebrity concert.

Or, there will be double-flattened ballet shoes, but that's what you bought after drinking three glasses of chilled juice plus rum in one go.

Or, you've been treating yourself as a rock star. From the time of youth, time and time again, your clothes and shoes make your mom always surprised. Then, in your cloak room, there are likely to be piles of four-foot-high trendy platform shoes, baubles with baubles, patent leather boots with high thighs, platform sandals decorated with many metal plates, and fluorescents. Shiny thick-soled sneakers.

If you are going to attend a funeral, you will need to find a pair of light black slippers.

If you want to be a rock fan, this idea is absolutely not wrong, but you are the ones who “run four” and your work has nothing to do with artistic creation. In this way, you may suffer from improper dress.” The image of "set the potential".

The cause of image ideology is that you lock yourself in to some kind of superficial impression, that is, a stereotypical quality that you present to the public, and that you have always been; or even entirely possible, before you have figured out your own When you have your identity, you have already chosen this image. Even if you actually have already “rebirth”, people will still look at you like this.

A similar situation that may result in apparent pain when locked in the image of a “rock fan” is similarly because it is locked in things such as “social antiques,” “good lady,” “enchantress,” “footballer too,” or “ You may also be limited in the image of the company's big sister. Please accept this idea: It is time to reflect on it, but first it is necessary to find out why.

"Shoe" saddle shoes and ballet shoes that you still wear when you were a little girl still affect you and your "shoe" subtly. Unless you have undergone some kind of major change, on the contrary, it is very likely that your shoes Products can be traced back to childhood.

If your situation is similar to most people, your current clothing style is likely to resemble your mother.

Assuming your mother is serious, your clothes are most likely to resemble Audrey Hepburn, and you may be wearing a variety of mid-heeled shoes or small black flats in your life; if your mother lives in a rustic, preference for linen In shorts and Bikenstock, it is very likely that you do not even have a pair of high-heeled casual shoes; if your mother has always insisted on a rigorous dress sense, such as wearing sandals on the street, not wearing white shoes after Labor Day, etc. , It is possible that you have been suppressed so that there is not a little fun to play, so that you may not even have a pair of high heels.

Perhaps the utilitarian shoe education you accept is:

Shoes are only used to wear;

The low price of shoes is very popular;

Or, sensible shoe consumption is the only way.

Maybe, you got a little real fashion biography; maybe you have no feeling of fashion. If you can't determine what affected your shoe, you will find these answers by digging deeper into your personal “tracks”.

Please start with the first pair of shoes you remember and why you remember it:

For example, I still remember the first pair of shoes that made me excited.

I was born in a U.S. middle-class family and I ranked third among sisters. My parents have neither the time nor the money to pursue "fashion"; what I have passed down from my sisters. When my mother took me to the JC Penny store to buy my first pair of "real" shoes, I was probably seven years old. It was a pair of Mary Janes branded creamy white patent leather shoes. Hanging pearl pattern. At that time, we lived in southern Georgia, and it was so poor that I could barefoot wear the sandals my sisters had passed down. I really remember the feeling of sitting in a leather chair in the shop at that time and becoming the only center that was swarmed around by adults. When I put my feet into pairs and pairs of shoes, the feeling is: Shuang! When we are optimistic When I took a pair of shoes, I remember myself staring enviously in my own feet, wondering what to do with these things? My mother shouted: "This is a shoe for you to buy for Easter." In this way, she instilled in me the idea that at a particular moment, special shoes are needed, and at that moment, a prostitute who is congenitally in fashion is created.

Although my mother was a woman who was filled with the gentleness of southern women, for the Sunday of Easter, her daughters were traditionally equipped with aprons and clean sandals. However, she turned the day into a complete fashion festival. I remember the night before, how excited we were. For a long time, we soaked our petticoats in the sugar water in the bathtub for a whole night and made them stiff and stiff. I remember our hem and aprons all hanging down on our little ass, and when they slipped to the floor, the feeling of drums rose again. I remember those white socks with delicate lace, small white gloves decorated with individual, imitation pearl buttons, small white patent leather wallets, and straw sun hats. The creamy Mary Jones shoes are the foundation of the festival chorus. I remember clearly that when I was wearing the shoes and walking on the long aisle of the church, I felt like a princess.